A Love Letter to Mother Earth
I can change the world
With my own two hands
Make it a better place
With my own two hands
Make it a kinder place
With my own two hands
With my own
With my own two hands
I can make peace on earth
With my own two hands
I can clean up the earth
With my own two hands
I can reach out to you
With my own two hands
With my own
With my own two hands
I’m going to make it a brighter place
With my own two hands
I’m going to make it a safer place
With my own two hands
I’m going to help the human race
With my own two hands
With my own
With my own two hands
I can hold you
With my own two hands
I can comfort you
With my own two hands
But you’ve got to use
Use your own two hands
Use your own
Use your own two hands
With our own
With our own two hands
With my own
With my own two hands
Queen of Your Own Life



- Claiming your beauty and feeling your power.
- Cleaning your mental closet and finding your queen voice.
- Admiring yourself for who you’ve become.
- Building deep, fulfilling friendships with other women.
- Establishing firm boundaries that will strengthen all your relationships.
- Learning the simple trick to finally being happy.
- Placing the crown firmly on your head.
Sofia Harrison ~ Mosaic Assemblage
In March I was in Healdsburg for a Cosmic Cowgirl member conference and had the pleasure of visiting the Electric Rose Gallery. One of the artists currently showing at the gallery is Sofia Harrison who does the most wonderful Mosaic Assemblage. Her creations had me ooohing and ahhhing and wishing I had a budget that allowed me to purchase even just one of her art pieces. She has an exquisite eye for color and for placement of the glass pieces she uses. Sofia also uses words in all of her works of art and as a lover of words this only added to the appeal of her work.
Please visit Sofia’s web site to view her art and to read about her. Here are a several of her creations that are featured on her site.
Natalie Merchant Sings the Poets
Natalie Merchant beautifully transforms poetry to song.
Happy Birthday
Today is my birthday! ~ I turn 41 years old today.
If you were with me in person we would sit out in the garden and eat vegan cake and soy ice cream together. Don’t worry they both taste out of this world and you would never guess they were vegan. Since you are not here with me in person I still wanted to share my celebration with you ~~ so here are lyrics to one of my favorite songs ~ Private Party by India.Arie. If you aren’t familiar with her music do check it out. She is an amazingly spiritual and positive individual who writes beautiful and inspirational music.
Ain’t no body here but me, my angels, and my guitar singin’
baby look how far we’ve come here
I’m havin’ a private party
Learning how to love me
Celebrating the woman I’ve become, yeah
Ain’t no body here but me, my angels, and my guitar singin’
baby look how far we’ve come here
I’m havin’ a private party
Learning how to love me
Celebrating the woman I’ve become, yeah
Ain’t no body here but me, my angels, and my guitar singin’
baby look how far we’ve come here
I’m havin’ a private party
Learning how to love me
Celebrating the woman I’ve become, yeah
Ain’t no body here but me, my angels, and my guitar singin’
baby look how far we’ve come here
I’m havin’ a private party
Learning how to love me
Celebrating the woman I’ve become, yeah
Ain’t no body here but me, my angels, and my guitar singin’
baby look how far we’ve come here
I’m havin’ a private party
Learning how to love me
Celebrating the woman I’ve become, yeah
Ain’t no body here but me, my angels, and my guitar singin’
baby look how far we’ve come here
I’m havin’ a private party
Learning how to love me
Celebrating the woman I’ve become, yeah
Finding Freedom
Finding Freedom
by Shiloh Sophia McCloud
What if we woke up today
And the old stories didn’t have their sting?
What if we didn’t resist what there is to do?
And set about our tasks, whether grand or mundane
As if we were serving the world through our tending.
What if we gave ourselves permission to love,
really love,
those who previously, we framed with our thoughts
as if we always know how they will be,
What if we treated them differently? Made ourselves.
What if we did a simultaneous cleansing,
a right of forgiveness…
If we took responsibility for what has gone before
and then choose to move forward powerfully
Instead of guiltily.
We know, how guilt does not inspire
but condemns us to hidden silences.
Let us be honest with ourselves
If things have not turned out as we hoped for.
If our dreams feel dashed or doomed.
Just say it.
Are there ties that need cutting?
Are there others that need re-tieing? Mending?
Heal it, Mourn it.
But only for less than a day or two
Then it is time to move forward.
Slowly, surely we move toward hope again.
So – it is foolish to love again, try again, risk again.
But what else is there to do?
Really. Really?
We are living in a broken hearted world.
Because some of us are hungry.
Some of us are hurting.
Some damage is too far done.
To admit what is, is not to enforce a negative reality.
We have what we have and words and thoughts
do not change what we have.
But we can change our futures.
We can love beyond reason.
We can choose to move ahead with as much joy as we can find.
Some of us are happy – some of us have enough.
We can rejoice in what we have,
Guilt is not the bedfellow of true joy.
Let us be truly truly thankful for what we have.
And when we are, what we no longer need
Comes into clear view. And we can make changes.
We see how we can give, and serve.
Finding freedom comes from telling ourselves the truth
About us.
Finding freedom comes from admitting and releasing.
Finding freedom comes after a lifetime of pain or pleasure.
When we allow ourselves to see what is truly here.
In our lives in the world.
A space is opened up in us when we are no longer
hiding from our conscience, our soul, our heart.
Finding freedom comes after grieving.
Freedom is not free, or easy, or even likely.
Good Riddance to Disappointment
I wrote a poem called Good Riddance to Disappointment just a few days ago as part of the current Cosmic Cowgirl on-line course I am following for 30 days called A Year of Promise. One option of the Day Three exercise was to share something you would no longer tolerate. During the course of my life I often felt like a disappointment to certain people in my life whenever I was overweight. I shared that I will no longer tolerate thinking that I am a disappointment to another human being. Just yesterday I was exercising after work at the park. On my walk I passed a beat up pick-up with three young men sitting inside. From behind I heard a whistle and then “Ooh baby, I love your ass!” and then laughter. There was no one else around so I knew the comment was directed at me and I also knew that it wasn’t sincere but rather meant to poke fun at me. I had a wonderful aha moment though because the whole scene made me smile. I really didn’t care what those young guys thought of me. Their opinions meant absolutely nothing. It really struck me on a deeper level ~ Why would I care what they thought of me? It is what I think that matters!
Good Riddance to Disappointment
I was told that my thighs
were too pudgy
my middle too round
from now on
only 30 carbs a day
I wanted
approval
I wanted
to please
I wanted
to be loved
Appetite suppressants
like caramel candy
would ease the hunger
and help me get
through the day
No bread or crackers
no milk or pasta
or even too much fruit
all this effort in order
to melt the fat away
I wanted
approval
I wanted
to please
I wanted
to be loved
I didn’t question
the methods
there was no mention
of health
all I did was obey
I feared
I would disappoint
if I was not thin
I was learning
fat was not okay
I want
approval
I want
to please
I want
to be loved
these are the things
for which my little
4-year-old self
would pray
Cosmic Cowgirls
During the summer of 2008 I was spending the weekend on the coast with my sister Wendy. Upon entering the Wisdom House Gallery in Mendocino here in California, which is owned by and features the art of Shiloh Sophia McCloud, all I could say was “WOW! WOW! WOW!”
Here are a couple of images from that visit.

I was incredibly moved by the art and journals that Shiloh had created. I spoke with Mary who was working at the gallery that day and during our conversation she happened to mention SARK, an author I had been reading and admiring for years. My visit to that gallery that day left an impression and I found myself visiting Shiloh’s web site. This is where I began to learn about the Cosmic Cowgirls. I also learned about the Bountiful Conference the Cosmic Cowgirls were presenting in October of 2008. It was a three day event for women that would feature art and writing and even SARK would be present and would lead one day of the conference.
My immediate response was that I must attend. I would end up vacillating on my decision for weeks. I would question affording it. My soul was being drawn to it though like a moth to a flame. Finally I committed and signed up to attend by myself. The conference proved to be an incredible experience for me. It was inspiring and motivational and I met some amazing women. The vision statement of the Cosmic Cowgirls is:
We envision a world where the voices of women and girls are heard and valued. Our mission is to inspire a creativity movement and provide a platform for voices for transformation to be expressed and shared. Our member-owned tribe teaches and produces educational multi-media events, books and tools that are designed to promote a vision of wellness, compassion and empowerment.
This vision spoke to me and I knew I would like to be a part of what they were planning to achieve. Before I left the conference I officially applied to become a Cosmic Cowgirl. My membership would later be approved after a telephone interview. After a couple of days filled with creating, visioning, writing, sharing, witnessing and celebrating, the long drive home was anything but tiring. I felt jazzed and fired up because my spirit had felt at home in the Cosmic Cowgirl world.
In the months following I would find myself procuring a business license for myself and I would call my new endeavor Red Boa Productions. I created business cards, got a resale license and began to plan my first Red Boa playshop for February 2009. Everything fell into place so smoothly and I continually had a sense that I was on a path meant for me.
In January 2009 I attended a class being presented by Shiloh called Painting Your Prayers with a friend and I again so enjoyed the experience of being in a women’s circle where we shared, created and meditated on our life visions together.
The day of my playshop was cold and rainy, and even snowy in nearby areas. In spite of the weather a total of 14 women, composed of family and friends, attended that gathering. Our ambitious agenda for the day included 1) Mandala Meditation 2) Circle Sharing 3) Personal Manifesto 4) Paper Altar 6) Closing Circle. It was an empowering and fulfilling day for me to facilitate such an event. I also felt very present and content. My closing reading was a powerful piece Shiloh wrote called We Are Wild Wonderful Women:
We are women of complex deep juicy mystery
We are women learning to love and forgive ourselves
We are builders of dreams and seekers of justice
We are creators of new life and bringers of light
We are lovers and warriors, healers and truth tellers
We are marvelously tender and fiercely compassionate
We are whole even when the past has been too much
We are abundant beings, full of celebration and vitality
We are wild… We are wonderful… We are women!!!
It made my heart happy to be present for a meeting of the “Inner Corral” and learn more about the exciting new projects that are being unveiled. The Cosmic Cowgirls are launching the Cosmic Cowgirl University and the Cosmic Cowgirl Magazine. There are also numerous in-person and on-line classes and workshops one can attend. I am currently participating in an on-line 30 day course called A Year of Great Promise. My dream is to one day take the Leading A Legendary Life class.





